Valerie Bertinelli recently sparked a powerful conversation about body image and self-acceptance after sharing a throwback swimsuit photo from 2014. In her post, she reflected on how her body was once labeled “overweight” despite being healthy and strong, calling attention to narrow and unrealistic beauty standards. Rather than seeking validation, Bertinelli encouraged people to rethink long-held ideas about weight, worth, and confidence. The response was overwhelmingly supportive, with followers praising her honesty and courage.
She also opened up about spending decades trying to lose the same small amount of weight, a cycle she eventually realized was emotionally exhausting. Letting go of constant self-judgment became a turning point, allowing her to focus on living in the present instead of chasing numbers on a scale. The loss of her former husband, Eddie Van Halen, in 2020 further reshaped her perspective, reinforcing what truly matters in life. These reflections are explored in her memoir, Enough Already: Learning to Love the Way I Am Today, where she emphasizes that life should not be measured by appearance alone.
