Their marriage appeared unshakeable from the outside, even amid intense scrutiny during the 2008 campaign. Inside, it was strained. In 2019—just after their 31st anniversary—Palin learned via an attorney’s email that Todd was filing for divorce, a shock she later said felt like being “shot.” The split was finalized in March 2020, leaving lasting scars. Today, they keep contact minimal, coordinating mainly for their youngest child.

Palin eventually found comfort with longtime friend Ron Duguay. What began as a friendly favor in New York grew into a relationship she calls “safe and comfortable,” even as she returned to politics. Public stumbles and private pain aside, Palin keeps moving forward—loudly, resiliently, and on her own terms.